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Justice Samuel A. Alito Jr. and Senator Bob Menendez have both blamed their wives for actions that have resulted in political or legal troubles for them. Justice Alito claimed his wife was responsible for an upside-down American flag, a Trump protest symbol, being displayed on their lawn before Joe Biden’s inauguration, while Menendez’s lawyer blamed his wife’s financial struggles for a bribery scheme involving foreign governments. Critics argue that blaming spouses for misconduct might temporarily relieve pressure on public officials, but it exposes their relationships to public scrutiny and can damage reputations.
Political Wives Blamed for Misconducts of Powerful Husbands
In the world of politics, it’s not uncommon to see husbands, such as Justice Samuel A. Alito Jr. and Senator Bob Menendez of New Jersey, blaming their wives for incidents that have elicited legal or political scrutiny.
Justice Alito, a notably conservative Supreme Court member, attributed an incident involving an upside-down American flag – a symbol of Donald J. Trump’s supporters – on their property, to his wife, Martha-Ann Alito. This event happened before President Biden’s 2021 inauguration amidst a neighborhood feud regarding an anti-Trump sign.
Senator Menendez’s lawyer, Avi Weitzman, cited the financial struggles of the senator’s wife as the reason behind a bribery scheme involving foreign governments and large sums of money. Senator Menendez’s wife also faces charges in the case but will be tried separately, after a breast cancer diagnosis.
While blaming their wives may tick the immediate pressure off these public officials, it exposes their private relationships to public scrutiny and invites negative repercussions. Blaming their wives could also fuel accusations of sexism and might be seen as a cowardly act.
Justice Alito’s statement about Mrs. Alito categorizes her as a wife whose strongly-held opinions become a professional liability for her husband. However, neither of them has been charged with a crime or formally accused of wrongdoing.
Political spouse scandals often arise from the disruption created when one partner attains a high-visibility role bounded by specific laws and ethical codes. Such positions not only place the spouses in the public eye but also make them scapegoats when things go wrong.
An example of a major public corruption case involved the marriage of Bob McDonnell, the former Republican governor of Virginia, and his wife, Maureen. Both faced federal charges from over $165,000 in loans and gifts given by a nutritional-supplements executive. The couple argued that their strained relationship made a conspiracy impossible.
Blaming the wife also serves as a good legal strategy, as spouses cannot be compelled to testify against each other. This strategy was apparent when former Representative Duncan D. Hunter, a Republican from California, blamed his wife for their financial mishaps, which led to charges of stealing campaign money.
High-profile couples often face public condemnation when their personal transgressions are linked to their professional ambitions. Sexist stereotypes, political roles or external employments of spouses often complicate their partners’ official businesses.
Public condemnation also extends to female public figures due to actions of their romantic partners. For instance, Governor Gretchen Whitmer of Michigan faced criticism after her husband’s questionable actions during the Memorial Day rush.
Carol Moseley Braun, a Democratic senator from Illinois faced accusations as her boyfriend, who was also her campaign manager, was accused of sexually harassing women on the campaign staff. Despite being advised to distance herself from him, she decided against it.
Powerful men in Washington often resort to blaming others for their misdeeds. And often, the person blamed is the woman closest to them, indicating a disturbing trend in the political arena.
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